Understanding Intimacy: What Does It Truly Mean to Know God?

Do you 'know' your God?

I recall reading in Genesis about Adam knowing his wife Eve, and she conceived. I always wondered why the word "knew" was used instead of "lay with" or other terms like those used in the story of David and Bathsheba. However, this is more than just physical intimacy. Knowing is about becoming one with your person.

God desires for us to be one with Him first before we become one with our spouse. God's original plan for marriage on earth is to reflect the oneness we have with Him.

"Depart from me; I never knew you" (Matthew 7:23). How can God not know you when He created you? The "knowing" here means you were never intimate with Him; you did not become one with Him, you did not understand His heart and therefore did not follow His will for your life. Even though they prophesied in His name and did works for their own sake, they did not know Him.

Reflecting on the nature of our relationship with God, we are reminded of James 4:8, which says, "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you." This mutual desire for closeness is essential. Just as we desire to know others and be known, God desires the same with us.

In conclusion, to avoid hearing "I never knew you," we must seek intimacy with God, understanding His heart and aligning our lives with His will. Only then can we truly fulfill our purpose and enjoy the benefits of His presence in our lives.

Practical Steps to create intimacy with the Father

Be open and honest with Him

Share your heart even though He knows everything

Ask what His will is for your life instead of following your own

Maintain a prayer life and set aside quiet time to meet with Him daily

Read His word and ask His Holy Spirit to guide you

Be led by His Holy Spirit

Allow Jesus to be Lord over every area of your life