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The road to healing: understanding your worth and value
I look back at some of the relationships I stayed in, and I can see now why I kept going back even after years of heartbreak. Years of knowing it was hurting me, yet still returning. Part of it was a soul tie, yes, but if I’m honest, not knowing my worth or my identity played a huge role. I didn’t respect my body because I didn’t understand its value. Think about a diamond for a moment. If you didn’t know what it was, if it just looked like a dusty rock, you might ignore it,
Dec 24, 20252 min read


Understanding Intimacy: What Does It Truly Mean to Know God?
Do you 'know' your God? I recall reading in Genesis about Adam knowing his wife Eve, and she conceived. I always wondered why the word "knew" was used instead of "lay with" or other terms like those used in the story of David and Bathsheba. However, this is more than just physical intimacy. Knowing is about becoming one with your person. God desires for us to be one with Him first before we become one with our spouse. God's original plan for marriage on earth is to reflect th
Nov 23, 20252 min read


Exploring the Beginning of the Genesis Season: What You Need to Know
The Genesis season is all about the beginning of a love story. When I think of Genesis, I think of Adam and Eve. God looked at Adam and said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him” (Genesis 2:18). Out of Adam’s rib, He created Eve. Imagine a God so good that while he puts the man to sleep, he creates a beautiful woman, perfect for Adam's needs. They both knew one another, and they both walked with God. It is such a beautiful picture
Nov 23, 20252 min read


Navigating the seven seasons of marriage restoration: Resurrection, Restoration, and Reconciliation
Introduction to the 7 seasons
Nov 23, 20253 min read


Is Narcissism in the Bible?
The word narcissism never appears in Scripture. It’s a modern psychological term used to describe people who are excessively self-focused, manipulative, and lacking empathy, among other traits. Psychologists call it a personality disorder, but the Bible described this kind of behaviour thousands of years ago. Everything begins in the spirit before it shows up in the physical. We are spiritual beings living in temporary bodies made of dust. What the world now labels “narcissi
Sep 27, 20253 min read


Welcome to difficult love blog: This is my story
Where it all began I am Victoria, but most people call me Vicky. I have been on an incredible journey of finding God, discovering truth, and stepping into my purpose. I always knew I was called to more. After graduating, I felt the pull of destiny but could not find fulfilment in anything. Even going to university was a struggle, and I have to admit I did not enjoy it. I studied HR because I knew I was called to people. I loved organising events, hosting, training, and teach
Aug 20, 20254 min read
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