The Healing Series

A desire that God placed in your heart can quickly turn into idolatry if it is not stewarded properly and if God is not truly at the centre. This was my case. I was so eager to get married that I viewed some of the men I met as potential husbands, causing me to ignore certain warning signs. When I did not see marriage coming from those situations, I forced the relationships. I compromised, and I’m sure the men could sense that desperation. It was foolish, because firstly, I d

I look back at some of the relationships I stayed in, and I can see now why I kept going back even after years of heartbreak. Years of knowing it was hurting me, yet still returning. Part of it was a soul tie, yes, but if I’m honest, not knowing my worth or my identity played a huge role. I didn’t respect my body because I didn’t understand its value. Think about a diamond for a moment. If you didn’t know what it was, if it just looked like a dusty rock, you might ignore it,

Where it all began I am Victoria, but most people call me Vicky. I have been on an incredible journey of finding God, discovering truth, and stepping into my purpose. I always knew I was called to more. After graduating, I felt the pull of destiny but could not find fulfilment in anything. Even going to university was a struggle, and I have to admit I did not enjoy it. I studied HR because I knew I was called to people. I loved organising events, hosting, training, and teach